February 2012
19 posts
4 Tears - Frank Ocean
friends before relationships.
if there is one thing i’ve learned when it comes to relationships, it’s to take things slow. building a friendship should always be your first priority. after all, what’s a relationship without a friendship? Really get to know someone as a friend, cause it’ll make your relationship that much better as lovers.
The more I think about it, the more it consumes me. There are things that happen in life that just feel right. If you’re meant to be with someone, you shouldn’t have thoughts that are negative. Cause once you do, your mind gets so wrapped up in it and all you see is the bad. After that, it becomes very difficult to see the good.
I told you I would try; you deserve that much.
Relationship: Compromise
Sometimes I need to remember that being in a relationship isn’t a one way thing. Everything that happens has to be done with a mutual understanding. You can’t go into one thinking everything will run smoothly, and you definitely can’t go into one thinking you’ll always be happy. You’re two different people; with two different brains. What may work for you may not work...
second chances
you never really know what a second chance means to someone till you yourself receive one. people make mistakes. we aren’t some kind of perfect idea of what a boyfriend or a girlfriend should be; we are humans. mistakes are inevitable. the ability to forgive and grow is what makes a relationship stronger. granted, there are some reasons why a second chances is too much but for the most part,...
i act all hard...
… when it comes to thinking I don’t need you. truth is, i really don’t need you but it’s nice to have you with me. at the end of the night, i regret every stupid thing i did that led to us falling apart. it started as a joke. i pushed your buttons, and i paid the price. now i can truly feel what it’s like to have something ripped away from me and not be able to do...
There comes a moment in every relationship where you start to question “why me?”. When you think of the person you’re with, and what and who they’re capable of being with, you realize they chose you. It’s like an alternate reality. I sometimes question their decision. What do they really see in me cause I sure as hell don’t see it in myself.
But at the end of...
I think the biggest problem in our generation is that many of our youth want to grow up so fast. Tell me what’s so attractive about working 8 hour shifts to put food on the table and shelter over our heads? What’s so good about paying bills and worrying about life insurance, medical and dental? You are young. Seriously, calm down. I get that you want to prove that you can take care of...
For once, I’d like to be surprised by a random bouquet of flowers or come home to a dinner table set up with a home cooked meal. I’d like to be told to take a whole day off of work and be taken on an adventure or to have candles surrounding my bubble bath. For once, I’d like to feel a little lightheaded from being surprised and butterflies from being overjoyed. I mean, it’s...
If He Went Away - Jessica Mauboy ft. IYAZ
relapse
re·lapse intr.v. re·lapsed, re·laps·ing, re·laps·es
1. To fall or slide back into a former state.
I try really hard to get you out of my mind. I’ve made a decision awhile ago to cut all ties with you so that I can let the healing process begin. You said it yourself. We’d go nowhere. So when I finally had enough, I took you out of my life. I deleted your facebook. I deleted your...
Sometimes, you just need to ask for help.
When you’re in the low of lows and money becomes a problem, you can’t always sell your things. You can’t always find ways to make money or pawn your valuables. You just have to suck up your pride, turn to someone you trust and ask for help. Times are really rough right now especially if you’re doing it all on your own. I get it though; it’s very hard to ask for help....
January 2012
26 posts
This is what I want.
A relationship that’ll last. not just for a month, or a year or two, but one that will hopefully be eternity. yes I’m picky, but when we live in a world where lust over powers love, I have to be.
Sure, seeing couples all cute and what not makes me want to be in a relationship now, but it would be for that reason. It would only be to fill that missing void. To care for someone, and...
Let's face it.
One day, I will die. And all that’s going to be left of me are the memories I’ve left behind. The last thing I want to be remembered for, is being ugly-hearted. Just saying.
Sometimes, it's a little hard to believe in...
…if you never do anything right. What I mean is, sometimes it’s hard to feel confident in something that you want to do, if the outcome always goes wrong. You start off with the best intentions and you give it your all, only to find that the world isn’t working in your favor. How many times has this happened to me - countless. It’s definitely a damper to your spirits, but...
I have to trust you...
Even if I think you’re lying or cheating or doing something you’re not supposed to, I have to trust what you say. No matter what kind of crazy ideas that go through my mind, doubting you burdens our relationship. It may be a dumb thing to do, but what’s a relationship without trust. What’s a relationship if you lie?
at the end of the day...
… the only person you have to answer to is yourself. You and ONLY you are in control of who you are. So make the decisions you want to experience; even if they’re not so wise. Sometimes we need to live on the edge and do things we’re not supposed to. What good is life, if you’re going through it without excitement? Just make sure you’re going to be able to live with...
r0b0h:
Brown Eyes|Destiny’s Child
I know that...
oh, the irony.
isn’t it funny that we work hard to accomplish things we want? i mean, that’s why we set goals and get into certain mindsets right? to work hard and make the end result rewarding. but isn’t it even more ironic when the end result isn’t what we thought it would be? like we work hard, and when we finally get to where we want to be, that unsatisfying feeling of...
"never call a girl ugly, even if you're joking"
yes. this statement is true, but what about the boys? you think girls are the only ones who feel the effects of being called ugly? no! we get hurt too. maybe our psychological reactions aren’t as extreme, but it doesn’t mean that it has no effect. society makes us think that men are strong; impenetrable and that nothing phases us. they’re wrong. guys get affected just as much as...
"I may be lying in the gutter, but I'm staring at...
I make mistakes. I know I do. Sometimes, I do it accidently, and sometimes I take a chance and it doesn’t go my way. It’s like living on the spur of the moment. Live with no regrets, right? This quote means a lot because it says that no matter how low we are, no matter how far we sink into the depths of darkness, we can always look to something better. The gutter represents the low of lows. Where...
1/24/2012 9:41PM
I think that being comfortable in your own skin generally comes from accepting who you are. No matter how much you love yourself, and how much confidence you have in how you look, given certain circumstances, it’ll be hard to accept yourself. I can sit here and tell you how I’ve accepted myself and how I could care less of what people think of me, but when you put me in a room with someone who has...
im starting to write again.
I am more than just a face, and yeah, it’ll take time for some people to understand that. Not only do I consider myself smart, I consider myself understanding and very capable of making people view the world in a different perspective. People will talk about me like they know me and you know what? I allow you to sit there and judge me based on what you think you know. I guess it’s the reason I...
Friends
I’m the kind of friend who will always be there for you. Even if time causes us to drift apart and we barely talk to each other, I don’t forget. I’m not one of those people who can easily walk in and out of someone’s life. If I walk in, I’m going to church. That means as a friend, I’m faithful. I’ll always have your back or be there to listen even if I can’t do it physically. You may forget about...
1/24/2012 8:29PM
sometimes we act as if we know everything. it gives us control, and an upper hand because we can predict a certain outcome. but by doing that, we lose all opportunities we could appreciate by walking through the unknown. yes. there are times in life where it’s okay to be in control, but sometimes putting your hands up in the air is the best part of the ride. don’t let fear be the reason you can’t...
my new fucking jam.
some people just don't get it.
you know how you get that helpless feeling when you really, and i mean really, care about someone and it goes unnoticed? I FUCKING HATE IT! It’s such a dilemma. A part of you doesn’t really want them to know in fear that they’d get scared, and another part wants you to go out of your way and bash them in the face with obvious signs of your affection. can they really not see it?...
I want someone who will put up with me singing.
Someone who will sing along when I have a random singing moment. Someone who will let me serenade them to bed while playing with their hair. Someone who will tell me to try again when I hit a sour note. Someone who’s going to encourage me to sing when I feel like I’m doing a horrible job. Is that too much to ask?
WatchIt Will Rain - Bruno Mars Ukulele Cover
I haven’t made a cover in awhile. It’s sloppy.
People may think I only care about myself, but in actuality, I don’t. I’m probably one of the most selfless people you’ll ever meet. Sure, at times I can be very selfish, but I make up for those by helping others. I always try to give advice when I can. I may joke around with a lot of people, but behind those jokes is a really genuine person who just wants to make a difference.
why do you confuse me?
you always text me good night:) and good morning:) ; but we’re just friends.
we sleep on skype almost every night ; but we’re just friends.
you say you care for me and treat me like you would a boyfriend ; but we’re just friends.
make your intentions clear cause it’s starting to give me whiplash. friends don’t treat other friends as if they were...
December 2011
6 posts
you know you found someone special when they got you going crazy. it’s like, every good morning and good night text they give you releases butterflies in the craziest ways possible. it’s like you can vividly imagine them laying next to you when you close your eyes for bed, or how you feel them gently braise your skin when they’re not even present. there is a special someone who...
That shitty moment when the "good morning /...
When you can tell that someone you really like is slowly losing interest.
#life.
The irony is that we love the right people at the wrong time. Or that sometimes when the time is right, we’re with the wrong people. What’s even more funny is realizing just how much we care for someone after they’ve walked away from us;or how much we’re cared for after walking away. Why are we so stupid? And when we do realize what really matters, it’s too damn...
Love is love.
When you’re in love, looks don’t matter. And I say this, because I’ve been left on multiple occasions by guys who were crazy for their less attractive ex-boyfriends. Now, I’m not trying to say that my looks are all that and a bag of chips, but I know that if I compare myself to what I was left for, I’m definitely confident that I’m more “appealing”....
